The funny thing is, this still does not help your case, but rather, it shows how little you know of Cornelius. I can tell you this, his history on how he came to become a Gentile Christian pretty much defeats the purpose of what you are attempting to convey. Your case would have been helped if Cornelius continued his trek as a Gentile Christian, thus shows how little you know of the man, and how little you know of the hermenutics of Acts 10.
You have to be very ignorant to think that JWs are the only ones. There are Christians out there who DO NOT SUPPORT going to war, let alone going against a brother of another nation. Then again, you mainstreamers and conservatives consider dropping a bomb on men, women and children is a Godsend, which is a parallel to the early creed followers who think that the death of a Presbyter was something to rejoice about.
That being said, if we are to apply what you've applied, it would have branded the common folk as a mainstream Christian - which you are.
I am a believer of God and a follower of his Son Jesus, perhaps maybe you should try doing the same thing, or continue to pick and choose, and think that God is somehow OK with such ideology.
If teaching a better understanding of "sacrificial love" is flannel...... then your understanding of how society should function is limited....... as most Western societies are now having a problem with the fabric of society. Religious, racial hate is escalating. People are looking to "social engineering " and post modern philosophy to provide answers. They are now promoting new minorities such as LGBTQ and protected religions. Soon the UN will bring in their arbitrary values to create "peace and security" but will fail at the peace.
Amidst all this - jehovahs people are United under the moral values taught by christ. In countries divided by racial hate such as south africa and growing racial divide in USA ...... we are United and the level of support and care for each other improving.
The core teachings of truth are there - we just need to improve our social skills with each other to meet the standards of jehovah as taught by jesus and his apostles......
I can do better: most allow smoking, pre marital sex, use of predictions, superstition, use of idols, and many are now voting for approval of homosexuality and LGBTQ..... I can go on ....