Narcissism

[Guest Indiana]

Narcissism is a tricky concept. Although most people intuitively understand why narcissism is toxic to be around (the superiority complex that makes a person treat all others as beneath them, the aggressive need for control, the inability to take responsibility for their actions, and many other harmful behaviors), many still often find themselves ensnared by a narcissist's charm long before they actually realize the person they're with suffers from a serious personality disorder.

If you find yourself dating a narcissist, it is possible to make the relationship work with a lot of strength, patience, and self-love—as long as the relationship hasn't turned abusive. But for many, narcissism is unbearable in the long term, and a breakup is absolutely necessary. The challenge, then, will be to get out safely.

If you have decided that it's time to leave your narcissistic partner, you are likely in for a big challenge on multiple levels. Here's what to do to protect yourself.

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/break-up-with-narcissist

[SuziQ1513]

I'm in a relationship with a narcissistic mother who is 96yo,  I'm trying to find my balance in caring for her.    I'm the only family member that is caring for her, at least trying.  She undermines and demeans what I do on a regular basis.  Worse of all she gets into my head.  I'm a highly sensitive person/empath so I know what she's thinking without her saying so.   I ended up marrying twice (one covert and one overt narcissist)  always trying to reconcile with "mommy dearest" through my husbands (not knowing that's what I was doing of course).  It's taken me many years to figure this all out.    Beware, the world is full of these people.   

[Guest Indiana]

Thanks for sharing your experience