The statement was not giving at jw.org but from brother Nelsons local congregation. Imagine all the people popping in just to ask the friends if they knew anything? This statement was from his congregation, also most likely after many tabloids called and hounded them... Its gotta be a zoo over there with news trying to get some kind of scoop.
As for Mr Jay... I am sorry you are so bitter and unhappy. I hope that someday you find some inner peace.
There are plenty of articles at jw.org on how to manage stress and how to find happiness in this stressful world