I think some are going off the topic, bringing in all sorts of things, originally this conversation was talking about a once sister who was a JW for 28 years, then after that found someone outside the truth to love and marry , and then turning her back completely on Jehovah. all I see now is an excuse for her, why oh why not drop this conversation before the topic even goes down more and you yourselves start to question the organization and fall away from the TRUTH.